3. The Modern Shoe Does not Fit

Men have always been about action, not words. In a society that has come to take the feminine approach to be the gold standard of "civilized discourse", it is hard for masculine methods to fly, especially if those methods are exhibited by men. In fact, there is a popularized rhetoric adding a negative adjective (toxic) to further discourage men from subscribing to their own natural masculine instincts. While feminists can wear female instincts and be effective by merely complaining or ranting about something to effect change, men do not have this type of hypoagency-induced privilege. 

Historically, everything men have achieved, including what they attained for the sake of women, have been through fighting hard. Men mobilized, moved, marched, hunted, warred, aspired with vigor and this effectively brought about the change they sought. In modern times, however, those methods are considered to be savagely archaic, hence the saying: "the future is female" connotes that masculine men have no place in the future of western civilization, even if they built it.